An Artist’s Journey

 

Hello, and welcome. If you’ve discovered this blog—a project I began in 2016—you’ll see a record of my life as an artist and thinker. My writing has been "on and off" over the years because life beyond the screen is demanding. I have traveled, studied, and navigated various career paths in search of my place in this world.

Like many, I have faced the challenge of leaders who view people as disposable. Through those trials, I have fought to keep art at the center of my life. I am still here, and I am still creating.

If my journey resonates with you, I invite you to support this passion. Whether through a small donation, sharing my posts, or simply visiting, your presence helps me keep this creative flame alive.

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For Better or Worse: Navigating the Choice to Settle

 

Image Credit: "Beach Relaxation" by Sie7e Fotos. Licensing available via 500px.

Throughout my life I had a few existential crises, the first one being about 11- 12, an overwhelming realization on my back patio. A thought came over me; what’s the point of life? What will happen when my parents die? What am I supposed to do with my life? It was the first time in my life I questioned if my path was predestined, or was I the architect of my own future?

By 15, I experienced a profound emotional low or depression. I felt a disconnect from the superficiality around me, realizing that many social bonds were built on appearance rather than character. It felt like a loss of innocence. I realized that people were appreciated for what they looked like and for what you could gain from their “ friendship” .Fortunately, my final years of high school brought enduring friendships, yet that "shadow" occasionally returned, leading me to question my place in this reality.

Image Credit: "mother holding her belly" by Sie7e Fotos. Licensing available via 500px.

As the years went by and moments in the black hole made me think a lot and notice how many people around me settle for many things in life and this is why everyone looked happy and fulfilled with their life . Women have to settle for many things and fast, for example, getting married to have a family and get pregnant, society always reminds us that the clock is ticking. 

It was a common pattern: people settling for the sake of security.  This habit of settling extends to careers and environments. I am not immune; I’ve worked jobs and lived in places that didn’t align with my true self. I often wonder what could have been if I hadn’t traded adventure for the familiar.

Today, I still face the temptation to choose the "standard" life. While I still live in the same town, and follow a routine like everyone else, I try to do it my way, with a purpose. I strive to act with intention. I refuse to simply "drift" through existence ( better now that never). If you must go with the flow for a time, don't fear it, just use that time to find the stream that truly belongs to you. People like us, always find a way. 

What have you settled for in life? What remains non-negotiable for you?